When you speak to people the words you use are clues that help display your current state of mind. The words you use can leave those that surround you with a neutral, negative or positive view of yourself. A lot of people are judged before they open their mouth and speak because of what they look like, the moment they choose to speak your interpretation of them is either matched by your assumption or surprised by your premature views. Words that are carefully chosen are matched with the intent they were meant for, those who spout out anything on the tip of their tongue might miss out on the logical filter of the mind which is sometimes used to camouflage their true intentions. Opening themselves to a side that is usually hidden by the smiles and compliments that help shower their friendly acquaintances. The naked truth no longer hidden by the power that language can help disguise.
Some people use certain words because they have a limited vocabulary not because they are trying to highlight something. Not everyone thinks that hard on how their words may impact another.
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