MOVE WITH THE TIMES

Technology needs to be embraced if you expect to stay in contact with those who choose to use it as their way of socialising. In our fast paced lives we do less connecting with people face to face and more with other forms of media. The evolution of technology forces people to rethink the way they have being interacting and move with the times. Life is ever changing those who refuse to adapt get left behind. This should be enough to steer peoples opinon to the majority, if they expect to fit in and not lose touch with those who are outside of their reach. People dont want to try and understand where we are headed as a society because all they can think about is where they are now. It is up to the individual to pre visualise where they want to be and set path to play which will lead them to reaching their long term goals. Without a plan of what you'd like to achieve in your life you are left with the disappontment that hits you at the point where you cant control the affect that you desire. Leaving you with the realisation that your opportunities have now past you by.

DAY OFF

Your weekend is a reminder that their is more to life than going to work. It is a little taste of what your life could be like if you didn't have the obligation that comes when you take on the responsibilities of an adult. Work can take up ten hrs of your waking life, from the time you get ready till the time you spend at work, is time away from your family life. The time we spend at work and thinking about work can sometimes camouflage the true meaning of why we go to work, for most it's a means to an end to others its a way of life, but the harsh reality to those who rely on work as a hobby is that with age not all jobs are still easy to do. That is why you retire from your working life eventually but you should never retire from your family life. Our bread and butter mentality that strives us to work harder so that we have more money for ourselves and our family's gets taken over by the lack of time left to spend with our loved ones, leaving us with more money but no quality time with the ones we most care about. As we get older our reason for slowing down is reinforced by our lack of stamina due to our deteriorating state of our health, this should be enough to remind us to enjoy our leisure time while we still have a adventurous spirit.

GUILTY AS CHARGED

Guilt is one of the most powerful motivators that influence how people  come to terms with their choices. Once the realisation hits them that their own needs took precedent before anyone Else's with no regard on how it may cause a negative affect, will they then start to feel guilt. We may try and mend the harm our errors have caused, but the lack of taking ownership at the right time doesn't help those we have offended because your actions may have already caused irreversible harm to your own integrity, your selfish actions forces you to repeat your most common mistakes and create a norm that is now expected of you. When your motives have been realised, it's enough to tarnish any relationship you may have because your guilt might not be enough to show  the intensity of your remorse. So come clean from the beginning  and remember if you feel guilty for something you may have done hiding from others is a lot easier than hiding from yourself, for that if you feel bad then you must have done bad. Fooling yourself that you only had good intentions is admitting to yourself that your not comfortable with the lies you say. So accept yourself , even if that acceptance highlights that you are more selfish than you thought you were. At least you would go sleep at night without questioning your true identity.