NEW YEAR OLD DREAMS

We wish on the same dreams ever year, expecting that this time is our year. What we don't ask ourselves because of our fears that resides in the question is what is the true reason why we aren't getting what we expect out of life. Are we doing all that is humanly possible to attain what doesn't seem to be attainable. Is there a way that we can modify ourselves to get rid of our bad luck without compromising our values. Or is it just easier to blame the world for our chosen life-style.

PAST MEETS PRESENT TRUTHS

Technology has helped advance us in leaps and bounds but how advanced are we as a society, if we are still plagued by the same problems that we were dealing with since our civilisation transgressed. Poverty has always been and will always be part of our lives because what motivates us in life has  changed from a humble desire to a society that is enriched mainly by money and power, greed then follows leaving no room for compassion.Our class matrix groups people and limits their ability to affect how they impact the world by creating a hierarchy that divides their will distracting them from what should be society's main goal, to help those that a less fortunate then themselves. Stripped of our possessions we all become a lot more alike only separated by the core beliefs which drives us forward, closer to reach our goals. Until we evolve our thinking and share our privileges by abolishing levels of class we will never get rid of poverty in our society.

COMMON SENSE ISN'T SO COMMON

Common sense seems to be a rarity for people to apply to real life situations. It seems to be difficult to use street smarts before making a decision to ask a question that most lateral thinkers filter through to get to a  what is considered a normal question. Are we so programed to ignore the obvious hints that smack us in the face, or are most of the questions asked rhetorical question that strangely are still expected a respectful answer, even though the answer still doesn't seem to justify the question. The answer seems to add significance to what really should not be emphasised.

NO TIME FOR XMAS TIME

Christmas time reminds us that it doesn't matter how hard the year has been for us, it's the time we spend together that's important. Where families take photos with Santa to remind them of the good that represents Christmas time. When is the line crossed between what we do for our family and what we do for ourselves, where forcing our kids to overcome their fear of the man with the white beard. Trying to convince ourselves to paint on a smile during a photo at a time where we feel we have nothing  to smile about because of the pressures that are forced upon us. Our true feelings fighting against showing patience when we are at our wits end with our families and friends during the busy Christmas shopping times and rushed events that lead us to Christmas day. Isn't our time as a family better represented as showing our true feelings on how we felt at the time we took the photo, something that will stick to our memories because of the raw emotion showed in the photograph. Our personalities that stand out and separate us from any other smiling photograph.

LONELINESS IN A CROWD

Trains are full of people having a lot to say but keeping conversation  to themselves their thoughts camouflaged by the crowd. Only few people try to communicate with the passengers in their sight, usually are confronted by a weird look and then a question DO I KNOW YOU?. The bigger our society gets, the more we feel less connected to the people that surround us. Diversity grows leaving us with more choices which leads us to  more confusion, are we able to choose what we want or does it conflict with what people expect of us.

MAJORITY RULES

Whether or not you have a talent you will not have any success unless you have a fan base. Those who try to strive in leaps and bounds are only restricted by the mass of supporters they command. Faith in their idols helps the privilaged thrive in a world judged by the majority. Unless you have the world on your side you are fighting an uphill battle that your sure to lose. Supporters will only back you if they believe in what you are pedalling , most fans will only support you if they feel you are the real deal to them someone they aspire to share similar qualities to. One of the few people in society they feel a connection to because of your ability to strip their raw emotion and reveal their true self.

HOLIDAY TIME AND GREEDY TIME

When your off from work and the distractions that normally take over your rational mind are at bay you are left with the ability to take control of your better judgement, because of the pressures of trying to earn a living are no longer clouding your centre focus. Holidays make you feel you have all the time in the world to experience all your desires, you don't normally have time for. Time doesn't seem to matter , days pass without consequence of minutes.Time to reflect builds your knowledge and refines your beliefs. Knowledge the only true tool you are able to give to your family and friends. When you pass away your knowledge is the only real piece of you that stays with the ones you've affected, all your possessions you've gathered cant come with you.Possessions can no longer give you any more satisfaction, so being greedy doesn't pay,but a pure heart will always be remembered as long as you are remembered.

HOURGLASS OF LIFE

Is our life predestined or can we choose how we live and when we die. Is our death determined once we are born or do our decisions lead us to several different possibilities that are ever changing. Our past shapes us and the present directs our future. It is the now that gives us power to take control of our life. The passing moments define us and our choices made challenge our virtues. How we a remembered reflects on how we treat others.

DISCIPLINE YOUR BLOOD

We discipline our children so that it teaches them right from wrong but what do we do if they keep on doing wrong is there limitations to our love or is it unconditional. What does it take for the relationship to be severed.

TIME DOESNT WAIT

While we grow older we try to discover what motivates us and what we want out of life. As adults our life becomes a lot more complicated and time restricts our choices forcing most of us not to experiment with our interests and to stick with the only thing we know. Time to discover ourselves has past.

DIRECTION OF CHOICE

Those who have accomplished an independent lifestyle don't take satisfaction in having choices taken away from them. All we have is our ability to choose how and when we want to do things, this our freedom of choice.

THE HIDDEN CHOICES

Options the key to recognising alternative perspectives. The choices leading to endless opportunities giving you the power to find the better solution. Solutions which open to new found pathways leading to a flow of the mind and the beginning of resolution, knowing that you now are able to comprehend life and break it up to an easier understanding. Seeing the bigger picture and the relevance of the situation to the impact we let occur. The feelings that overcome your thoughts by creating anxiety because of the many questions you ask yourself and then realising that the problems now seem a lot smaller at second glance.

LETTING A SITUATION PASS YOU BY

Shame is the barrier that keeps your actions in order, because of the fear of disapproval. This limits the control you have over your situation and of your feelings, which are forced to stay at bay where they are unable to affect the direction of your desire. All because you don’t want to affect the perception society has of you.

RUNAWAY TIME

People are afraid of “The truth” that we are mortals running out of time. Where decisions must be made and our priorities influence the way we live .With every decision we make the repercussions we are forced to face. How time does not wait for you to take the reins of life. Time, a reminder that we are not invincible. Bringing everyone on an even playing field.

GUILTY AS SIN

Anger and guilt numb your senses and heightens your confusion by taking away your ability to filter your emotions and by taking away the control you have over the situation. Control only remains when anger subsides then guilt no longer influences your actions. Leaving you to feel confident that you have no blame for that you have tried everything you can leaving the blame ball in the other court.

LANGUAGE MANIPULATION

To every long word in our vocabulary there is a short word with the same meaning, a bigger word just has a unique twist  to help pronounce the meaning by highlighting and transforming the significance of that word. The bigger the word the more impact it commands by manipulating your focus to each syllable as powerful as each stand alone word, bringing a sense of urgency to the one preaching. Also getting you to believe what they are saying must be true because they sound confident with how they use their powerful words.

LIE DEEP LOSE WORTH

When you lie, people lose respect for anything else you say. Changing your once powerful opinion, and transforming it to have weightless impact on any of your interactions, where your worth is now diminished by your lack of integrity. Leaving you with a transparency view points that restricts your ability to connect with anyone who can see through the charade.

REVOLVING TRUTHS

What makes some people want to change their religion. Does changing their mind make their new found beliefs right. Is there a universal truth that people should follow or is what they know about the law and religion enough reason to abide by the belief that the law and religion will lead them to the truth irrespective what is right as a society. When is the majority opinion not enough when trying to work out our conflict with each others views.

HIDDEN DESIRES OR SINGLE MINDED IDEALS

People claim to have goals open to their desires. Without letting go of your fears your goals can never be met. You must understand what you want isn’t always what you need. Most people want a family of their own, but don’t want to give up on any of the sacrifices that comes with it. To want to sleep in a double bed with your partner but needing the whole bed for themselves, no room for compromise. People spend a lot of time trying to meet their life partner and once they find them they want to be without. Looking back to the single life they once led. Where all they have to worry about is themselves, no need to sacrifice there wants. An easier life where they can go back and hide in the dream that they are on the life search for there other half, making sure there expectations are never met.

THE UN-INVITED GAME

Life a game that begins at birth without choice. A game you are a part of and have the option to play or not to play by the rules. Whatever the choice we make the game will always remain, and like all games there will be a winner and a loser, this is only determined at the end of the game and at the end of your life. The key is to understand that the game is a part of us, and to understand its rules will benefit in succeeding in the game which will help you get what you want in life.

MAN AND WOMAN

Man doesn’t exist without woman and woman doesn’t exist without man. That’s why both man and woman feel empty without the other. The woman completes the man as the man completes her each possessing a necessity to each other by ensuring they both unite with each other and the world, by elevating there own unique happiness. Man and Woman are the main two elements that make up a society who’s dreams and aspirations are controlled by their desires, but they are merely labels for that man and woman’s existence goes beyond what is the norm but more of what is normal for them, through this question the answer is purely physiological all that we are able to do is surrender ourselves to it. It is the companionship that is our common goal irrespective of sexual orientation.

f AND t JUST THE BEGINING

Social media gives us a stage where anything is possible,where we are  only limited by our own imagination. We are now capable of reaching a grand audience but where possibilities are magnified so are our vulnerabilities being judged by a larger scale of critiques  those who will ridicule anyone  they can not relate to. The power of words, capable of shifting sides to anyone willing to listen but is the full story been taken into consideration or are we only concentrating on the advantages.

FACTS DO RULE OVER FICTION

There are questions people don't like asking themselves because the answers open there eyes to changes they do not want to comprehend for their beliefs aren't use to being challenged. They would rather believe that putting a happy face means that there problems really have been dealt with. Afraid that if they show negativity to those who deserve it by being rude to those who are selfish it can take over there own state of mind. So use your imagination and let the delusion settle in. Life is great if you don't acknowledge that there are ups and downs in life.

DEPRESSION OR LACK OF DISCIPLINE

When needing guidance to decipher the labyrinth of the mind and drugs aren't the solution to stabilise your swaying moods. Your left needing an unbiased outside influence to help you get out of a depressed state of mind. Depressed minds can vary from an in balance of chemicals which can only be helped with chemicals those that are influenced by stress can only be helped by sorting out the confusion state of mind. Believing in yourself is the solution that will get yourself out of the state of mind where you feel stuck alone trapped looking at yourself wondering how you got where you are and not even knowing where you are. Feeling like your watching yourself living life without having any control of your own actions. The key is to recognise that you are the only one who can give yourself courage to break through depression by looking at the power of choice. Look at your life and change what you can and accept what you cant.

NO GUTS NO GLORY

In life some experiences help motivate us to do better and get more out of our circumstances. While others deny our curiosities by directing us to not to do anything different to the way were use to. Leaving our paths to flow with the sway of the world by not going against the grain. We have two choices which both will lead to our fate of our character structure  which determines the level of our discipline we have, do we try and take leaps and bounds further than what is expected of us that will be more difficult, or do we take the easy way to a life without any real challenges with as little chance to fail as is humanly possible.

FRAGILE HUMANITY

Innocents aren’t immune to the problems that plague us all. Sickness and the frailty of life show no mercy to the weak and vulnerable. Once you begin life the hour glass of life losses grain without any prejudice, young or old black or white there is no escaping our one truth. Life and death are a part of each other and they will remain whether we choose to endure it or not. All we have is to look past our end of life and to see what’s beyond the mortal life and to see that we are part of a big plan. There to put in place to balance humanity.

ENVIRONMENT OF NATURE

We are surrounded by our own man made creations. Transgressed through our limitless imagination, gods of our own domain. Our way of life and our beliefs are molded by our experiences. Our beliefs are what motivates us to think what we are doing is justified irrespective of confliction. Our beliefs even though are unique to our own mind they still are real to the consequences that we are all bound by. Making our beliefs an undeniable part of those we interact with. Sometimes influencing some to think twice about how they choose to be affected.

MISERY LOVES COMPANY

When your jealousy overtakes your envy your appreciation of simple pleasures of life are overridden by your lack of control of your emotions. Jealously left in the place where your morals normally stood swaying you to do what is out of character. Jealousy now your companion, stuck on taking you far from your happiness .Your only on track when you’re truly happy by following your desires. You are the only one able to wake yourself up and bring you power to your ability to reason with your conflicting battles in the mind. Do I try to be good to others or do I just be good to myself. 

DISILUSION OF SANITY

How much does your perception of yourself vary from another ones opinion of you? Are we disillusioned by our egos? Do we only see what we want to see or do we really care how we come across or how we effect others. Does our opinion revolve only on our perspective of the truth? One thing we have in common with each other is that we believe we are right in the way we think and that we are happy to think the way we do. But why do some people feel the need to escape from reality by any means possible. Suicide their answer to the fears of a complicated world.