SECRETS UNCOVERED

We all are guilty of sharing a secret with someone, even though we have assured the keeper of the secret that the truth will stay with us alone. This doesn't mean our partners are excluded from our new gained information that we believed wasn't part of our secret bond. There are other exclusions that cant be part of the pact made, friends who have informed you when they assured others that they weren't going to let you in on the secret and those we let the know of the secret because the information could help a friend out of a dilemma. As long as you didn't give the information directly to them you can feel that little bit better that your not completely in the wrong. Unless the unwritten rule stands where you swear either with your pinky or on a loved ones life, then you have to face the music when its found out that you've known the secret but you have kept it to yourself. Everyone knows that previous informant losses out on this latest news because a pinky swear is a pinky swear and you don't want to risk giving any information up with the chance of someones life being in harms way. Eventually what you've said will come out even if the chances are slim so be prepared to wear it and take responsibility for what you've said. Backstabbing those that you only have because you wanted to be safe on the band wagon is the quickest way to have regrets because people can be stupid in a crowd where as an individual you tend to react without the fear of the misguidance of others so what your giving may vary from what the mob is asking for.

HIDE IN THE SHADOWS

Most people live their life trying not to stand out by avoiding situations that might create a big splash around them, which may bring them closer to experience unwanted attention. Keeping their feet away from any waves and not getting their feet wet can be compared to surviving and not living. Majority of their energy is spent trying to avoid getting their feet wet rather than trying to experience life with all the bumpy waves that make it challenging and helps to separate the monotonous tasks that sometimes can overtake our daily duties. It is the waves in the ocean that defines our being, to be pacific our essence is in the detail. You must throw all yourself out in the ocean, as we only have one chance to give it our all. So hiding yourself in the crowd can only hide your true potential, so brace yourself and build yourself to your true ethics and then no one can knock you down.

LUCK OR LIKE

You may work in the same working environment and share similar responsibilities, but it doesn't mean your working under the same regime. Most jobs try to stand for fairness and equality, but where there is human emotions, so there is flawed standards. Standards that change depending on your relationship with those in power. There are three motives that can influence your working environment, positive negative and neutral. Neutral may come with wins and loss's and all that just depends on the controller's state of mind. Neutral still gives you a chance of having a good day as long as they're having a good day. Positive the Irish luck is on your side, you can't put a foot wrong and lastly the most entertaining and not always in a good way is negative, where someone is trying to convince you what's happening is the norm. What they are really saying is this is normal for you because they carry the sceptre of power, so there. This is funny because you could almost imagine what they were like as kids and why nobody wanted to play with them. Life becomes funny when the predictability of others becomes the soap opera in your daily workplace. Especially when peoples stupid and predictable behaviour becomes the norm. So to get what you deserve in life you'd better be liked and remember its not what you know its who you know that matters in a happy work place.

DOUBT TRUST RESPECT

Words can direct you to several related meanings, each word creates a profound impact by highlighting the relationship and the significance of each individual word. The power of language can cause a domino affect because the relationship between each word doesn't just stop with one meaning, it tells you the real story that hides behind the tricks of language. This allows you to decipher the core meaning of the word through connection of their meanings. One word leads you to another, and strengthens the path to the true intentions of the speaker. Our ability to analyse each word allows us to interpret its true meaning. Words that are said to our face aren't always the story that is being told behind our backs. Do those who lie directly to us acknowledge that they too are lying to themselves.

DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL

When business is just business their leaves no room for compassion, without compassion you can lose a lot of business. Our ability to connect and relate to each other heightens our human touch which enables us to work out what people desire.Without knowing what people's wants are we aren't able to distinguish who our market is and how to take an advantage buisness perspective. People's needs must be sated if we expect them to give us their best. Loyalty comes when respect is shown thats why most people will do more for someone who is friendly and kind than for a those who are arrogant and rude. Time shared with others, the reward should always out weigh the punishment otherwise what is the point. Business is about people and peolpe want to be happy. So treat people the way you want to be treated and you will be surprised how much happier and successful you become.

INEVITABLE PATTERNS

Their is a natural order in life that defines our reality. This is ignored because many of us have little time to focus and analyse the events that take place in our busy lifestyles. Allowing yourself to spare some free time to look deep under the surface, helps reconnect you to the common ground that simplifies life's true meaning. We must go with the flow if we ever expect to keep in sync with the world. As John Lennon quotes "Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans". If we don't give time to reflect on our decisions, we are left to lose our perspective and lose what drives us to persevere. Most people experience times of hopelessness, but when you slow down your life you begin to realise that their is a natural order in life that you must expierience the tough times to prepare you for even the tougher times. Its within these tough times that you are reminded not to take for granted the good times in your life.

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GLUTTON FOR PUNISHMENT

It is sad that some people need to be treated badly for them to treat others with respect. Those who need constant reminding not to take peoples generosity for granted easily forget that those who treat them with respect isn't a sign of weakness but a show of strength. This type of behaviour reinforces the saying treat them mean to keep them keen. But not all those who are victims of neglect desire the reminder that their decision to be friendly should come at a cost of losing their integrity. If we don't strive to be good to one another than all that is left is the caveman mentality "ME FIRST" without any regard to anyone else's well being because their only truth is what am I getting out of this. Motives that only suit one person promotes dictatorship this highlights the individuals personality in the first three letters in dictatorship and most people would rather surround themselves with someone who is not a dic. How civil is a civilisation that values only the selfish minded this can never represent our society. That's why our values should focus on what we can do to make others happy and not what do i get out of it.